Do you feel like you’re stuck in a loop when it comes to money? Maybe you work, save, try your best—yet abundance still seems to avoid your life. Perhaps you’ve already wondered if the issue goes deeper than just budgeting or poor decisions.
And you’re right.
Financial problems often don’t start in adulthood, but deep in our childhood. Patterns we absorbed from our parents, feelings of lack, arguments about money, or the shame of wanting something—all of this can get stored in the subconscious and turn into blocks that sabotage us without our awareness.
How Money Blocks Work
Maybe some of this sounds familiar:
- You feel guilty when you spend money on yourself.
- Even when more money comes in, it quickly “disappears.”
- You struggle to ask for a fair price for your work.
- You carry a deep belief that you simply don’t deserve more.
These are not coincidences—they are subconscious programs rooted in past experiences. And until we uncover and change them, they stay active.
Childhood Patterns
A child raised in an environment of scarcity, constant money arguments, or in a family where “rich people are bad” will likely form beliefs such as:
- “Money corrupts character.”
- “Good people never get rich.”
- “I must work hard, otherwise I don’t deserve anything.”
These patterns are not conscious, but they run in the background like a program. They influence not only finances but also our sense of self-worth.
How to Change It: Tapping + Conscious Work
The good news is—these programs can be changed. The key is a combination of:
- Conscious work with beliefs—recognizing where the pattern comes from and how it affects your life.
- Tapping techniques (Faster EFT)—a simple but powerful way to release these blocks directly from the body and nervous system.
Example of Using the Technique:
- Recall a specific situation—for example, a memory when a parent said, “We can’t afford that!”
- Close your eyes and notice the physical sensations in your body.
- Tap on the points (eyebrow, side of the eye, under the eye, under the collarbone).
- While tapping, repeat phrases like:
- “I let this go.”
- “That was then, now I’m an adult.”
- “I can live differently.”
- Breathe deeply. Notice what shifts.
A tapping diagram can be found below.
What Will You Gain?
As you begin to change your financial patterns, you’ll notice:
- You sabotage your own decisions less.
- You develop a calmer relationship with money.
- You can ask for more—without feeling guilty.
- New opportunities start opening up for you.
